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    One face of Evil

    Austrian woman held captive for 24 years and repeatedly raped by her father which resulted in the birth of six of his children.

    Every time you think you have heard it all something comes along and just blow your mind anew and leaves you graveling for the inhumanity human beings can commit upon one another. May the angels of mercy be with this poor woman and her children because Lord knows they will need a bevy of help to get through each day and come to terms with the crimes committed against their very being. It is said that the father held 2 of the children hostage with her and the other 4 was with the wife who was unaware that her daughter was being held in the basement.

    The added shocker to this grotesque depiction of inhumanity (yes it gets worst) is that this viciously demonic degradation and psychological warfare against the mind, spirit, body and soul is not an isolated incident, can you belief it? In 1998 a 10 year old girl was held captive for 8 years as a sex slave. This is positively horrifying for me to even wrap my mind around can you even begin to imagine the mental state of this girl, this woman and her children? One would hope that such things would never occur at all.

    Have Mercy!!

    STOP FEEDING THE PIGEONS

    I wish people would not feed the pigeons. There seem to be a belief (by the perpetrators) that feeding pigeons is a good thing; it is not! In fact nothing could be further from the truth. Please do not misunderstand me. I do not hate animals in fact I admire them. I grew up with them all around me and I don’t think anyone should be allowed to deliberately harm them however my admiration for animals is from a distance.

    While I think cats are cute, birds are fun to look at and dogs are adorable I don’t want them in my bed, in my house or sharing the same space with me. Now this can be attributed to a number of things one being culture and the way we dealt with pets. First they had their own space, to be more accurate they had their own houses which we built for them that was cleaned daily, they were well fed and loved, and had their own bowls etc which was also cleaned daily.

    My paternal grandmother had about six dogs, two cats if memory serves and chickens while at my maternal grandfather’s he had lots of chickens, hens, rosters etc and my uncle had a dog, a monkey and a parrot. We played with them, walked them but when it was time to retire for the night they all went to their houses as we did ours.  Dogs to their dog house, cats to their house, birds to their place wherever that maybe (for those who had them as pets-in cages), chickens to the trees (yes I did say trees, that is where they slept up in the tree). Not to mention the meriad of iguanas, camillians, house lizards, snails, snakes, bull frogs and a host of others that were the natural part of the habitat. So this thing about having animals, birds, cats, dogs sleeping in one’s bed and eating out of one’s plate is a bit grotesque to me.

    This is further exacerbated by the constant irritation of pigeons invading my space.  I have not been able to enjoy my balcony for the past four years.  This is due in part to people who feed the blasted pigeons so they no longer leave. I mean, why would they, its free food so instead of hunting and doing what comes naturally they hang around becoming the urban feathered bums, the willing vagrants and scavengers. They are a pest, I have to be constantly cleaning not to mention shooing like a mad woman when I am sitting in my living room attempting to enjoy a movie or the company of friends.  Imagine sitting having a civil conversation and then you hear an outburst of (me of course)‘shoooo! Go away!, move!...oh sorry, pigeon (me apologizing for my random outburst)’.

    There’s always pigeon shit everywhere, I clean today and tomorrow without fail there is shit again, the black and white stinkers. I mean who wants to play dodge the pigeon shit every time you want to go out on the balcony…hmmmm? A little shit here, a little shit there, here a shit, there a shit, everywhere a shit shit. Damn, anyone with a lick a sense knows that pigeon filth is filled with uric acid and highly corrosive with bacteria, fungal agents and ectoparasites that are responsible for diseases like encephalitis, salmonella, meningitis, just to name a few.

    This cleaning pigeon shit really pisses me off and yesterday was no exception. (Saturday) I was cleaning because things were a bit messy from all the show and storms. I picked up an empty (what I thought was empty) green garbage bin and to my surprise pigeons came flying out. Imagine my shock, the garbage bin went flying one way and I the other.  humpty dumptyIt happened to fast I didn’t know I was falling till i was falling and my left arm, elbow and hand scrapped against the concrete wall beside the sliding glass door and I landed with a thud twisting my wrist and slamming my derriere. The fall knocked the wind out of me. I couldn’t move for a bit. I called my daughter for help but of course she could not hear me over her music blasting in her room. I sat for a bit till I could figured out a way to get up since my hands were hurting especially my left. I couldn’t move the wrist for a while. I finally manage to drag my pitiful ass off the concrete floor and went inside, thankful that I was on the side closer to my living room than the seven foot drop on the other side.  I simply sat to collect myself and massage my hand, it was bruised. 

    Now in addition to having some lovely red welts down my whole hand and being very very soar and hurting, I have to look into possibility of investing hundreds to get rid the pigeons by purchasing either Plastic Bird Spikes - Stainless Bird Spikes - Gutter Spike - Bird Spider - Bird Slope - Solar Bird Repeller - Bird Netting - BirdBGone Diverter - Bird Chase Ultrasonic - Bird Chase Sonic - Goose Sonic - Goose Repellent - Coyote Decoys - Bird Gel - Spray Repellant - Scarecrow - Mini ScareCrow  or Bird Motels Traps if I want to my balcony.

    That is so messed up, I got to cage myself to enjoy myself. I mean damn what other alternative is there? When I am at home my time is taken up shooing pigeons off the balcony and during the time I am not at home I know they are having a ball because I can see sticks and little branches where they were preparing to nest down in my absence. Hey if they were helping me pay my rent, go halves on the grocery, cable and utility bills perhaps then I may consider them taking up residence on my balcony but thats not likely to happen and it’s no fun playing jump the poop when I want to go out on the balcony to take in the sun and breeze and just relax. And sitting amoung shit is not a solution either.

    So people next time you get the urge to feed the birds, don’t! There are consequences to doing so, you may not see it but there is. Damn my whole hand hurts…blasted pigeons! Stop feeding the pigeons people! You know who you are..stop it! Stop it now!

    Giving ~ 'what is the purpose, something to consider'

    I had an experience that reminded me of my grandmother. About two weeks ago I was buried up to my eyeballs in work when a dry throat and thirst prompted me to take a break. I decided to pause briefly to get myself some tea (a new habit am cultivating) when someone stopped by to say hello.  She was heading in the same direction as I intended (the kitchen) when I thought to myself, 'why not ask her to bring you some hot water, that way you can get through some of this stuff burying you'. Now I am not in the habit of asking however I have learnt over the years that there is no harm in asking for assistance because if you do not ask, you’re not likely to get help, besides I thought, 'I am not asking for anything I cannot do myself. If she says yes, I am blessed; if she says no I am equally as blessed because I can get up and fetch it myself'. As far as I was concerned the person was more than welcomed to say no which would not have offended me in the least as I was, as I stated before capable of doing it myself. I didn't have anything to lose really, so I asked…

    “Hi, are you going to the kitchen?”

    She responded by answering, “Yes I am, can I get you something?”

    “Oh yes, some hot water please, do you mind?” I held my teapot out quarter of the way between us poised to pull back in the event she said no.

    “No, I don’t mind.”

    I handed her my little teapot and off she went. A few minutes later she came back with my teapot filled with hot water. At the door just before she could enter to hand me the teapot of water, she met a few more people by my door (it gets pretty busy which is why I close my door so I can get some work done) who had also stop by to say hello. She handed me the teapot fill with hot water for which I thanked her graciously as she proceeded to tell the person standing by the door……

    “You see what she have me doing, bringing her hot water, you see how nice I am. I got her a pot of hot water.”

    Normally I would have let such a comment pass without acknowledgement but I remembered a few days before the same person was making similar statements about others (which I had recommended she address with the parties involved) and I realized in that moment, that the kindness was not a genuine kindness but rather a tool by which this person seems to use to garner attention for performing good deeds. I decided to use the opportunity to put her on notice and perhaps in the interim make her a little conscious of her actions. I stated very calmly and concisely to bring attention to her so-called kindness…

    “My grandmother always said, when you perform an act of kindness it is not something you go about broadcasting to everyone or anyone that will listen in hopes of seeking validation for a good deed performed. If you did not want to bring me the water you could have simply said no. I am not offended by the word no nor would I have been hurt as I am quite capable of getting the water myself.”

    I guess she was embarrassed that I put the spotlight directly on her behaviour in front of the very people she was relaying the tale "kindness" to because she started stuttering and half laughing, half clearing her throat saying…

    “oh, haha, ah… I was only joking.” And she left.

     My point….

    Honor yourself, if you do not want to do something for someone when asked then say no and don’t do it. Do not say yes and then go around complaining about all your have done to anyone that will listen. By doing so you are further dishonoring yourself in addition to leaving a bad after taste/impression about the content of your character.

     

    Gratitude Moment:

    I was glad for the experience (it was enlightening) because in that moment together with the prior experiences she taught me a bit about who she is. This information has made me socially wiser and it has allowed me to set my boundaries as far as she is concerned. Lesson noted and learnt, I was not upset about the incident, just thankful because 'actions speak so much louder than words'.

     

    Mindfulness Thought…

    Think before you say yes, and consider yourself in all things.

    Expressing it as is – ‘Take it or leave it~one side of a discussion on a particular philosophy’

    1purplebell
     If you cannot be your true self,
    The person you are to the core in all your relationships
    Whether it be friendships, marriage, or family 
    What is the point?  
    Why are you there?
    If not to keep it real,
    Be real and make it better,
    Why are you there?
    What motivates you to stay in a state of relationship decay?
    To die a thousand deaths each day...
    Till the souls of your faith gets eaten away
    Relinquishing effort for a chameleon’s display
    What are you afraid of?
    What lies do you tell yourself?
    What is the benefit to you, living an inauthentic life?
    Who do you really think you are fooling?
    How long you do plan to keep on pretending
    Pointing the finger, blaming everybody else but self for your wealth of unhappiness
    When are you going to rise up and just be!
    Stop selling your soul and your personal integrity
    In life you cannot please everybody
    To be anything or anyone other than your authentic self is to set yourself up for hurt,
    To deliberately guarantee that your existence be filled with disappointments
    An endless string of suffocating baggage inherited from the experiences of living a life of self-deception.
    It is much easier to be yourself and a hell of a lot less complicated to be who you are,
    Whoever that is, whatever that is, however that is. It is enough.
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